How to Start Homeschooling

You don't need a teaching degree. You don't need the perfect plan. You need a clear first step and a teacher in your corner who's been there. Here's exactly where to begin. 

1 Do Your Research (Then Close the Tabs) 

Before you buy a single thing, get clear on what you actually want. Not what looks good online. What fits YOUR kid and YOUR days. 

→ Picture a real week. Traditional calendar or year-round? Mornings or afternoons? 

→ Talk to real homeschoolers. Ask what they'd do differently. That's the gold. 

→ Weigh it for the whole family, not just one child. 

Teacher warning: research helps right up until it becomes the 11pm spiral. Learn enough to start. You'll learn the rest by doing. 

2 Know Your State's Laws 

Homeschool laws run from barely-any-rules to lots-of-paperwork, depending on where you live. It can feel like a lot. Breathe. One step at a time. 

→ Look up your exact state requirements before anything else. 

→ HSLDA (hslda.org) keeps a clear, state-by-state breakdown. Start there. 

This is the boring part. Do it once, do it right, and it's done. 

3 Withdraw the Right Way 

Not every state requires a formal withdrawal. Do exactly what your state law says, then protect yourself with a paper trail. 

→ Send any withdrawal letter by certified mail, return receipt requested. 

→ Keep copies of everything. Every letter, every receipt. 

→ Emailing instead? BCC yourself and save the whole thread. 

Then celebrate. You are officially the administrator of your own school. That's a big deal. 

4 Set Your Goal First 

Here's the move most guides get backwards. They tell you to shop for curriculum first. Flip it. A teacher names the destination BEFORE picking the map. 

→ Ask: what should my kid be able to DO by the end of this year? 

→ Be specific. Not "get better at reading." Try "read a chapter book and tell me what happened." → Then, and only then, choose the activities that get them there. 

This is called backwards design. You start at the finish line and build back to today. It's the whole reason great teaching works. 

5 Choose Curriculum Like a Teacher 

Now that you have a goal, curriculum becomes a tool that serves it, not a magic fix you panic-buy at midnight. Here's how a teacher actually picks. 

→ Start with your kid. Hands-on, visual, read-aloud? Use it as a clue, not a cage. 

→ Be honest about YOU. The best curriculum fails if it exhausts you. How much prep do you really want? How many kids are you juggling? 

→ Check the scope and sequence. What's taught, in what order, and does it build to mastery? → Try before you buy. Watch flip-throughs, download samples, start with one subject instead of a full boxed set. → Protect your budget. Buy used. Use the library. Join a swap group. You do not need it all new. 

→ Prioritize math and reading. And hear this one teacher to friend: reading is not the same as "language arts." Reading is decoding plus comprehension. It's the skill that unlocks every other subject. Get it right first. 

A curriculum can look perfect online and still be wrong for your family. The right fit serves your goal and your energy.

Homeschool Supply List

The Homeschool Supply List 

Back-to-school, teacher-approved. The basics that earn their place, the tools worth buying once, and the stuff to skip. 

The Basics 

Pencils + a good sharpener Big pink erasers 

Crayons + colored pencils Washable markers 

Glue sticks 

Kid-safe scissors 

Teaching Tools 

Composition notebooks Blank + lined paper 

Pocket folders 

Dry-erase markers 

A small whiteboard 

Highlighters + sticky notes

A few smart tools beat a shelf of curriculum. Buy once. Use them for years. 

Teaching Tools

Counting manipulatives 

Bears, linking cubes, or base-ten blocks for hands-on math. 

Number line + hundreds chart 

Print these free. Tape them right to the table. 

A simple timer 

For focus and smooth transitions between subjects. 

Storage bins or a rolling cart 

One bin per kid, or one per subject. That's it. 

Skip for now

✕ Themed classroom  decor. ✕ A second (and third) planner

✕ Matching bins and labels ✕ A boxed curriculum for every subject

How to Start Teaching

How to Start Teaching

You did the setup. You picked a curriculum, found a corner of the house, and made a schedule. But here's what no one hands you: how to actually teach it. That's the part I spent eight years learning in a classroom, boiled down to the moves that matter most. No degree required. Just a handful of good habits you can start using tomorrow.

1. Start With the End in Mind 

Before you open the workbook, answer one question: by the end of this, what should my kid be able to do? Not "cover chapter 4." Something real. "Add two-digit numbers with regrouping." "Retell a story in order." 

→ Name the goal (what they'll be able to do) 

→ Decide how you'll know they've got it 

→ THEN pick the lesson or activity 

Now every worksheet, video, and game has exactly one job: get them to that goal. If it doesn't, skip it. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

Write the goal on a sticky note before you start. If you can't say it in one sentence, you're not ready to teach it yet. 

2. Find Out What They Already Know 

You can't teach a kid you haven't located, and grade level is a label, not a location. Before you start a new skill, take five minutes to see what's already there. Ask them to try a problem. Listen to them read a page. Watch where it breaks down. Then teach just above where they actually are, not where the box says they should be. That narrow step, a little past comfortable but not overwhelming, is where learning happens. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

Frustration and tears aren't a behavior problem. They're data. They almost always mean the work is a notch too hard. Back up, find the gap, and build from there. 

3. I Do. We Do. You Do. 

This is the most powerful move in all of teaching, and almost nobody uses it at home. Most homeschool frustration comes from one jump: "let me show you" straight to "now do it yourself." The magic is in the middle. 

→ I do. You model it. Think out loud so they hear how you're thinking. 

→ We do. You do it together. They lead, you catch the wobbles. 

→ You do. They try alone, while you're still close by. 

Don't rush that last step. Stay in "we do" as long as they need. The goal isn't speed. It's a kid who can do it without you. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

When they get stuck, resist grabbing the pencil. Drop back one step instead. Hand it back when they're ready. 

4 Teach to Mastery, Not to the Calendar 

The workbook says lesson 12 comes after lesson 11. It doesn't say your kid is ready for it. Here's the trap: the next lesson almost always assumes the last one stuck. Move on before it's solid and the gaps stack up. Three weeks later, math "suddenly" falls apart. It didn't. The crack was there the whole time. Moving slow feels like falling behind. It's the opposite. Slow is fast, because you only teach it once. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

Before you turn the page, have them do one problem with zero help from you. If they can't, the lesson isn't finished. Stay one more day. 

5. Make It Stick 

Rereading and reviewing feel like learning. They mostly aren't. The brain locks in what it has to pull back out of memory, not what it passively sees again. So build in recall. 

→ Start each lesson with two quick questions from yesterday 

→ Revisit last month's skill, not just this week's 

→ Have them teach it back to you, a sibling, or a stuffed animal 

Forgetting a little and then retrieving it isn't a bug. It's exactly how memory gets strong. That small struggle to remember is the work paying off. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

End every lesson with "tell me the most important thing you learned today." Making them retrieve it, in their own words, beats another worksheet. 

6. Follow the Mistake 

A wrong answer is the most useful thing your kid will give you all day. Don't erase it. Read it. There's always a why: a skipped step, a rule applied in the wrong place, a shaky foundation two skills back. The mistake is a map straight to the thing you need to teach next. So get curious instead of correcting. "Walk me through how you got that." Their explanation shows you exactly where the wire crossed. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

Stop marking answers just right or wrong. Start asking "how did you get that?" It turns mistakes into information instead of failure, and it tells you what to teach tomorrow. 

7. Read Aloud Every Single Day 

If you do one thing on this list, do this. Reading aloud is the highest-payoff habit in your entire homeschool, at every age. It builds vocabulary faster than any workbook. It grows comprehension, attention, and a kid who actually likes books. And here's the part parents skip: keep going long after they can read on their own. Reading them books above their own level stretches their thinking and their language. Fifteen minutes. A couch. A good book. That's the whole strategy. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

Read a notch above what they can read alone. Pause now and then to ask "what do you think happens next, and why?" That question is comprehension instruction in disguise. 

8 . Teach the Idea Before the Steps 

Especially in math. When a kid only memorizes the steps, it works right up until they forget one. Then it's gone. When they understand the idea underneath, they can rebuild it every time. This is why "I've taught fractions four times and it never sticks" happens. It's being taught as a rule to follow, not an idea to understand. Show them half of a real apple before you ever show them the numbers. 

Same with reading. Decoding (sounding words out) and comprehension (understanding them) are two different jobs. A kid can nail every word on the page and still miss what it meant. Teach, and check, both. 

T E A C H E R M O V E 

Before the procedure, make it concrete. Blocks, drawings, a real example. Let them see the idea with their hands before they do it with a pencil. 

Common Teaching Mistakes 

Even great parents fall into these. Naming them is half the fix. 

1 Talking the whole time. If you're doing all the explaining, you're doing all the learning. Kids learn by doing, not by listening. Talk less. Let them work more. 

2 Rescuing too fast. The moment they pause, jumping in is tempting. Don't. A little struggle is where the learning lives. Count to ten. Let them wrestle first. 

3 Confusing "finished" with "learned." A completed worksheet proves nothing on its own. They can fill every blank and keep none of it. Check for understanding, not just completion. 

4 Making lessons too long. Fifteen focused minutes beat forty-five foggy ones. Once attention is gone, the learning already stopped. Keep it short. Come back fresh. 

5 Teaching every kid the same way. What works for one won't work for the next, even in the same house. Watch how each child learns and adjust. That flexibility is your superpower. 

6 Buying new curriculum when the problem is a teaching gap. When something isn't working, the fix usually isn't a new program. It's a small change in how you teach it. Try these moves before you spend a dime. 

Here's the truth. You are already the right teacher for your kid. You just 

needed the teacher brain to go with the love you already have. 

Stop second-guessing. Start teaching like you know what you're doing. Because now you do.